It may be ourselves. It may be a husband, wife, significant other, fiancé, son, daughter, niece, nephew, grandchild, parent, or good friend. Without a doubt, bad habits destroy lives. Addiction is not just about food, drugs, or alcohol; it may be any human appetite which is overindulged such as gossip, shopping/spending money, gambling, gaming, telephone usage, collecting/hoarding, etc. This candle may be burned to break habits which are detrimental to ourselves, to others, and by others.