DRAMA MAMA is all about that other person in your, or your partner's, life who torments you and your relationship in devilish ways. It is NOT about ignoring a child or denying a minor child everything they deserve or are entitled to receive. It is about calming an inflamed situation and creating or returning peace and contentment between yourself and your partner, or to your life when it has been disrupted by an ex's behavior. Of course, diplomacy and kindness intentions will go far when burning this candle.