As with all human emotions, there is a vast difference in intensity from person to person and situation to situation. OBSESSION is to turn up the intensity of another's thoughts of you. Burning this candle is your message to the Universe for the object of your desire to think of you in a positive manner and for you to remain on their mind until they take positive action to contact you, to see you, to be with you. Nothing happens without thought first. This candle's purpose is to ask this to happen, and it works well in conjunction with the Bleeding Heart candle.